<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331</id><updated>2011-04-22T10:14:44.593+05:30</updated><title type='text'>LauraBee</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>26</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331.post-5772291983236411072</id><published>2009-04-16T07:26:00.003+05:30</published><updated>2009-04-16T08:29:23.811+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Florida</title><content type='html'>&lt;div&gt;Last Wednesday I made the decision to leave India a few weeks earlier than planned to be with my family and help support my grandmother, who had become suddenly and seriously ill. Over the next couple days I traveled from the mountains near &lt;span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error"&gt;Dharamsala&lt;/span&gt; back to Delhi, Chennai and eventually on to my grandparents' home in Florida. Within a day of returning, I was struck down by a brutal fever (for the record, not malaria). I turned out to be more of a burden than a help to anyone and I felt terrible. Luckily that has passed and I feel fine now.&lt;br /&gt;Thanks for all the wishes, thoughts and prayers for my grandmother. I am happy to report that she is in good spirits, building up an appetite, and ready to come home from the hospital, hopefully tomorrow.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p align="left"&gt;&lt;img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 179px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5325118006166536546" border="0" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SeaenOiXwWI/AAAAAAAABMY/IlK6Nsy-le8/s320/IMG_4929.JPG" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;Sunrise this morning.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8231504018799906331-5772291983236411072?l=laura-bee.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/5772291983236411072/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8231504018799906331&amp;postID=5772291983236411072' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/5772291983236411072'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/5772291983236411072'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/2009/04/florida.html' title='Florida'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SeaenOiXwWI/AAAAAAAABMY/IlK6Nsy-le8/s72-c/IMG_4929.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331.post-1623536534724867704</id><published>2009-04-01T21:42:00.003+05:30</published><updated>2009-04-01T22:02:29.625+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Amritsar</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SdOU8z9KhgI/AAAAAAAABMA/ckfDB9Qbd3A/s1600-h/lb+057.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5319759357314500098" style="WIDTH: 240px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SdOU8z9KhgI/AAAAAAAABMA/ckfDB9Qbd3A/s320/lb+057.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Golden Temple&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SdOU9gXgwzI/AAAAAAAABMI/m_JJ-bZWMmQ/s1600-h/lb+092.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5319759369236169522" style="WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 240px" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SdOU9gXgwzI/AAAAAAAABMI/m_JJ-bZWMmQ/s320/lb+092.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SdOU8xrjpPI/AAAAAAAABL4/_kLNmmMeT2k/s1600-h/lb+051.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5319759356703778034" style="WIDTH: 240px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SdOU8xrjpPI/AAAAAAAABL4/_kLNmmMeT2k/s320/lb+051.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SdOU8lnuTHI/AAAAAAAABLw/NNwqWPePf0Y/s1600-h/lb+052.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5319759353466473586" style="WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 240px" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SdOU8lnuTHI/AAAAAAAABLw/NNwqWPePf0Y/s320/lb+052.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SdOU8G5dQ2I/AAAAAAAABLo/KZ7YXoAHjUA/s1600-h/lb+045.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5319759345219355490" style="WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 240px" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SdOU8G5dQ2I/AAAAAAAABLo/KZ7YXoAHjUA/s320/lb+045.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8231504018799906331-1623536534724867704?l=laura-bee.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/1623536534724867704/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8231504018799906331&amp;postID=1623536534724867704' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/1623536534724867704'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/1623536534724867704'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/2009/04/amritsar.html' title='Amritsar'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SdOU8z9KhgI/AAAAAAAABMA/ckfDB9Qbd3A/s72-c/lb+057.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331.post-6718812390642521267</id><published>2009-03-30T17:06:00.002+05:30</published><updated>2009-03-30T17:35:08.297+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Luang Prabang to Bangkok to Amritsar</title><content type='html'>Life is sure moving quickly. I can't keep up with writing about, blogging and otherwise documenting the amazing experiences of the past few weeks.  Laos was so lovely, I wish I had another two weeks or more there.  I was quite sad to leave Luang Prabang and of course also Tyler, my magnificent travel buddy.  I uploaded a few pictures from laos to albums here &lt;a href="http://picasaweb.google.com/lbrandt/Laos02?feat=directlink"&gt;http://picasaweb.google.com/lbrandt/Laos02?feat=directlink&lt;/a&gt; and here &lt;a href="http://picasaweb.google.com/lbrandt/KuangSiWaterfallCookingClass?feat=directlink"&gt;http://picasaweb.google.com/lbrandt/KuangSiWaterfallCookingClass?feat=directlink&lt;/a&gt;, and there are more laos pictures to come.  The second link is from a visit to kuang si waterfall, a lao BBQ dinner, and then my laos cooking class, which was super interesting and inspirational.  I know I need to add captions.. if you look at the cooking class pictures, watch out for the one of some bright orange eggs.  Turns out that is what chicken eggs look like before they are laid by the mother chicken and have a chance to develop shells. &lt;br /&gt;After Laos I had a whirlwind 24 hours in bangkok and then on to Delhi and today Amritsar.  So far loving Amritsar.  It feels like another planet.  The energy and vibrancy on the streets here is like nothing I've felt in the past few weeks- actually like nothing I've felt ever.  Riding in a bicycle rickshaw from the train station into town, sun shining down, so many people in the streets, packed into vehicles, all shouting, laughing, smiling, waving.  So much happy chaos.  I'm struck by how unusually friendly and curious everyone is here.  Next up - going to visit the Golden Temple for sunset.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8231504018799906331-6718812390642521267?l=laura-bee.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/6718812390642521267/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8231504018799906331&amp;postID=6718812390642521267' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/6718812390642521267'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/6718812390642521267'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/2009/03/luang-prabang-to-bangkok-to-amritsar.html' title='Luang Prabang to Bangkok to Amritsar'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331.post-8880524934168999005</id><published>2009-03-25T05:54:00.004+05:30</published><updated>2009-03-25T06:27:20.878+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Sabadee</title><content type='html'>Luang Prabang is very lovely.  Woke up the last two days before dawn to the sound of monks chanting and drums beating.  Spent the day yesterday exploring the city's wats and markets.  The markets are particularly delightful and interesting: a pile of snails pulsing with life, live owls tied to rocks, pairs of songbirds packaged in a tiny bamboo parcel (for releasing at the wat for good luck), frogs, snakes, crabs and fish - all alive. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I finally have a new camera after my old one developed a fatal lens error on the beach in Chennai.  So here are some pictures from our first day in Luang Prabang.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/Scl_6j0ypuI/AAAAAAAAA9M/xUy2nFxCVKc/s1600-h/lb+284.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/Scl_6j0ypuI/AAAAAAAAA9M/xUy2nFxCVKc/s320/lb+284.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316921479113385698" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/Scl_6ebuyxI/AAAAAAAAA9E/Rc8pGYg9XN0/s1600-h/lb+210.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/Scl_6ebuyxI/AAAAAAAAA9E/Rc8pGYg9XN0/s320/lb+210.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316921477666097938" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/Scl_6Iu6wNI/AAAAAAAAA88/dP1Pd4KRxM4/s1600-h/lb+159.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/Scl_6Iu6wNI/AAAAAAAAA88/dP1Pd4KRxM4/s320/lb+159.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316921471840993490" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/Scl_5xTQvqI/AAAAAAAAA80/uyxZtWsALUg/s1600-h/lb+155.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/Scl_5xTQvqI/AAAAAAAAA80/uyxZtWsALUg/s320/lb+155.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316921465550978722" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/Scl_63yLmmI/AAAAAAAAA9U/zvk8FYFHLFc/s1600-h/lb+146.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/Scl_63yLmmI/AAAAAAAAA9U/zvk8FYFHLFc/s320/lb+146.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5316921484471147106" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8231504018799906331-8880524934168999005?l=laura-bee.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/8880524934168999005/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8231504018799906331&amp;postID=8880524934168999005' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/8880524934168999005'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/8880524934168999005'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/2009/03/sabadee.html' title='Sabadee'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/Scl_6j0ypuI/AAAAAAAAA9M/xUy2nFxCVKc/s72-c/lb+284.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331.post-9156436945376077205</id><published>2009-03-12T20:38:00.003+05:30</published><updated>2009-03-12T20:59:57.336+05:30</updated><title type='text'>KK</title><content type='html'>Made it safely to Kota Kinabalu.  Just had a wonderful evening meal at the night market.  Super-fresh seafood.  I pointed at a red snapper that had just been pulled out of the sea and they grilled it up and served with rice and chilly-soy-lime sauce (which, strangely, they call sambar.. can't get away from sambar).  Also sampled some delightful seaweed- little green pods that burst like fish eggs.   Walking through the market after dinner I observed people eating the most unusual looking bowls of fruit and goo.  I thought that would be worth trying as well... I wound up with a bowl of food called ABC Special: pineapple, papaya, lychees, sweet corn, a mashed up avacado, at least 5 different types of tapioca, macaroni, shaved ice and condensed milk.  It arrived in a dish like one that would be used for an ice cream sunday and I was instructed to mix everything together.  It was tasty.   Tomorrow I'm going to hit up one of the local islands just outside of the city, then hopefully set off to climb mt. kinabalu on Saturday.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here is the link for Sadhguru's talk in Bellevue on March 24:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.ishafoundation.org/component/option,com_program/program_id,1785/task,details/"&gt;http://www.ishafoundation.org/component/option,com_program/program_id,1785/task,details/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8231504018799906331-9156436945376077205?l=laura-bee.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/9156436945376077205/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8231504018799906331&amp;postID=9156436945376077205' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/9156436945376077205'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/9156436945376077205'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/2009/03/kk.html' title='KK'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331.post-1258087844304599787</id><published>2009-03-12T05:15:00.010+05:30</published><updated>2009-03-12T06:14:16.024+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Sadhguru in Seattle March 24</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Hello! It's been a long time since my last blog update. Wanted to let &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;seattle&lt;/span&gt; friends know about a great event coming up- my guru is giving a talk in &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;Bellevue&lt;/span&gt; on March 24. If you have any interest or &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;curiosity&lt;/span&gt; about yoga or meditation I would highly recommend! &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;Sadhguru&lt;/span&gt; is charismatic, funny and of course incredibly insightful- I assure the evening will be a pleasure. Let me know if you attend! I will post details soon (having difficulty posting the link from this computer). &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This morning I'm writing from the airport in Singapore as I am en route to Malaysian Borneo. The last few weeks in southern &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;india&lt;/span&gt; have been terrific. Received an ancient mantra from a yogi in a cavernous room in the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;nilgiri&lt;/span&gt; mountains, watched the sunrise over the waters of three seas at the very tip of the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;indian&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7"&gt;subcontinent&lt;/span&gt;, gorged on tender coconut and fresh fish while drifting on a houseboat through the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8"&gt;keralan&lt;/span&gt; backwaters, received a blessing from an elephant at &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10"&gt;hindu&lt;/span&gt; temple built in the 11&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_11"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; century, trekked through tea, coconut and cardamom plantations, engaged in a two hour conversation with a renowned &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_12"&gt;ayurvedic&lt;/span&gt; doctor, and yesterday observed some colorful &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_13"&gt;holi&lt;/span&gt; festivities. I'm taking just a two week leave from India but already missing it! Also looking forward to adventures in Borneo and Laos.  So far I can say the singapore airport Tiger airways terminal is fantastic.  Free internet, free drinking water and it is very clean.  They are even giving out free candy... amazing.  Love from the road! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8231504018799906331-1258087844304599787?l=laura-bee.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/1258087844304599787/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8231504018799906331&amp;postID=1258087844304599787' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/1258087844304599787'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/1258087844304599787'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/2009/03/sadhguru-in-seattle-march-24.html' title='Sadhguru in Seattle March 24'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331.post-4059095595638407069</id><published>2009-02-09T18:38:00.007+05:30</published><updated>2009-02-09T19:45:13.676+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Marriage &amp; Meditation</title><content type='html'>Wow, what a great couple of weeks the past few have been!  For one thing, I had an amazing, transformative experience at Isha Yoga Center in the end of January.  I took a three day yoga/meditation course there and had the most incredible experience.  Since then I've been practicing the technique I learned there twice a day each day.   My practice time may even exceed lunchtime as my favorite time of the day! :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The week after returning from Isha was especially great because Deb, a friend and fellow Chennai-based AJWS volunteer, stayed at my place while she was attending a mediation course at Sivananda.  We had great conversations about spirituality, yoga and judiasm every morning over coffee and fruit salad before we both headed off to work at our respective NGOs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Knowing that I'm going to be leaving Chennai soon I've been savoring all my experiences here even more than usual.   I've been so grateful for the absolute wonderful group of colleagues and friends who have greeted me so warmly here.  Leaving this place for my next adventure is going to be truly bittersweet.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This past weekend in Chennai was my last, and it was definitely a good one.  Balaji, a friend from Seattle invited me to his sister's marriage.  Wow! 2000 people and three solid days of ceremonies.  So many symbols, rituals, flowers, blessings, gifts, people, drums, cameras, and delicious foods.  It was a lot of fun.  I wore a sari and that was fun too.&lt;br /&gt;A picture of the bride and groom:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SZA4c2OMMNI/AAAAAAAAA8k/-MfJoO_40ZA/s1600-h/IMG_4206.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="cursor: pointer; width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SZA4c2OMMNI/AAAAAAAAA8k/-MfJoO_40ZA/s320/IMG_4206.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5300798829657600210" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A picture of Balaji:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SZA5grNZRbI/AAAAAAAAA8s/0zWAQkXvF-c/s1600-h/IMG_4184.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="cursor: pointer; width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SZA5grNZRbI/AAAAAAAAA8s/0zWAQkXvF-c/s320/IMG_4184.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5300799994932577714" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8231504018799906331-4059095595638407069?l=laura-bee.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/4059095595638407069/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8231504018799906331&amp;postID=4059095595638407069' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/4059095595638407069'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/4059095595638407069'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/2009/02/marriage-meditation.html' title='Marriage &amp; Meditation'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SZA4c2OMMNI/AAAAAAAAA8k/-MfJoO_40ZA/s72-c/IMG_4206.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331.post-4213920646790075051</id><published>2009-02-01T10:44:00.002+05:30</published><updated>2009-02-01T11:44:13.361+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Compassion</title><content type='html'>At a lot of ashrams in India, short little books on various life and spirituality topics are available from the ashram bookshop.  These 20 page packets are great little reads.  I wanted to share something I read about compassion and helping others that made a lot of sense to me.  This one is from "A Guru Always Takes You for a Ride" by Sadhguru. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Many times, human beings, once they reach a certain level of attainment, have an urge to be overly compassionate.  Misplaced compassion always comes from your ego; you want to be the most compassionate person on the planet.  Wherever anybody need anything - reach out.  This is not coming from any kind of understanding, wisdom, or awareness... This problem is there among people - they want to be the most compassionate.  True compassion is not about giving or taking.  Ture compassion is just doing what is needed.  You ave no preferences of your own; simply doing what is needed is compassion.  Your revving yourself up into a huge amount of emotion and and reaching out to somebody is not compassion.  This is just self-satisfaction, devious ways to fulfill yourself.  Compassion is possible, genuine compassion is possible, when there is nothing to fulfill in you, you are just doing what is needed."&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8231504018799906331-4213920646790075051?l=laura-bee.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/4213920646790075051/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8231504018799906331&amp;postID=4213920646790075051' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/4213920646790075051'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/4213920646790075051'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/2009/02/compassion.html' title='Compassion'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331.post-6838695383736375635</id><published>2009-01-30T22:34:00.003+05:30</published><updated>2009-01-30T22:53:21.218+05:30</updated><title type='text'>25 Things</title><content type='html'>It seems like there is an explosion of 25-things lists so I thought I’d go with that.  Here are 25 things about my experience in Chennai so far. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Tender coconut&lt;br /&gt;2. The 8PM rush at the neighborhood shrine: people, song and incense spilling out into the street&lt;br /&gt;3. “Had your breakfast?” (morning greeting)&lt;br /&gt;4. “Sit down”&lt;br /&gt;5. “What did you pay for this?”&lt;br /&gt;6. Yoga class commands: Relax! Stretch! Breathe! Focus! Concentrate!&lt;br /&gt;7. Drinking from vessels without lip contact&lt;br /&gt;8. Stares&lt;br /&gt;9. Techniques auto drivers employ to solicit more money than the agreed sum&lt;br /&gt;10. Girls with flowers in their hair&lt;br /&gt;11. Bindi stickers&lt;br /&gt;12. Bangles&lt;br /&gt;13. The mysterious fluctuating availability status of various menu items over the course of a day&lt;br /&gt;14. Household shrines&lt;br /&gt;15. Creation, Maintenance and Destruction&lt;br /&gt;16. “Is it not so?”&lt;br /&gt;17. Billboards and placards advertising shops that no longer exist, or do not exist yet&lt;br /&gt;18. The entire office staff sharing one email account&lt;br /&gt;19. Nescafe, sugar and boiled milk&lt;br /&gt;20. Locking the bathroom door closed when no one is in there&lt;br /&gt;21. Hand washing after eating&lt;br /&gt;22. Poop, crows and trash&lt;br /&gt;23. Straight men embracing&lt;br /&gt;24. Chai wallah, fruit-and-vegitable wallah, real-estate wallah, knife-sharpening wallah, tailoring wallah, ironing wallah, ear-wax-removal wallah, cotton-candy wallah, sugarcane-juice wallah, handyman wallah, fortune-teller wallah, spoken-english wallah, SAP-C++-JAVA-.NET-Oracle-CAD-training wallah&lt;br /&gt;25.&lt;br /&gt; &lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SYM0fQkzWkI/AAAAAAAAArg/nzLbB1JGPQo/s1600-h/IMG_4001.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SYM0fQkzWkI/AAAAAAAAArg/nzLbB1JGPQo/s320/IMG_4001.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5297135298347752002" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8231504018799906331-6838695383736375635?l=laura-bee.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/6838695383736375635/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8231504018799906331&amp;postID=6838695383736375635' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/6838695383736375635'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/6838695383736375635'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/2009/01/25-things.html' title='25 Things'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SYM0fQkzWkI/AAAAAAAAArg/nzLbB1JGPQo/s72-c/IMG_4001.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331.post-597926530547952273</id><published>2009-01-17T15:20:00.004+05:30</published><updated>2009-01-17T15:56:54.527+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Pongal O Pongal</title><content type='html'>Pongal is a harvest festival celebrated throughout Tamil Nadu.  The traditional Pongal food is sweet pongal, made by boiling milk, adding rice and dahl, jaggery (sugar cane), ghee (clarified butter), rasins, cashews, cardamom.   It seems like everybody I talked to has a different idea of how long pongal is supposed to last.  I ended up celebrating for four days which resulted in my consuming of a lot of sweet pongal. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SXGtAaD3yNI/AAAAAAAAAqc/y-4cZt5xiXc/s1600-h/IMG_4079.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SXGtAaD3yNI/AAAAAAAAAqc/y-4cZt5xiXc/s320/IMG_4079.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5292201259644209362" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Making Pongal&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SXGtAZfxUTI/AAAAAAAAAqk/nrwNd0iQ6YA/s1600-h/IMG_4091.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SXGtAZfxUTI/AAAAAAAAAqk/nrwNd0iQ6YA/s320/IMG_4091.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5292201259492790578" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Getting ready for pongal puja&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SXGtiy_bYXI/AAAAAAAAAq0/BalqfNA34SY/s1600-h/IMG_4099.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SXGtiy_bYXI/AAAAAAAAAq0/BalqfNA34SY/s320/IMG_4099.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5292201850452009330" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Pongal Puja&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SXGtiv6gssI/AAAAAAAAAqs/OkXI_mwKXj8/s1600-h/IMG_4097.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SXGtiv6gssI/AAAAAAAAAqs/OkXI_mwKXj8/s320/IMG_4097.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5292201849626079938" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Getting ready to eat pongal&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SXGtAJ18SfI/AAAAAAAAAqU/_xcckhkhAw8/s1600-h/IMG_4072.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SXGtAJ18SfI/AAAAAAAAAqU/_xcckhkhAw8/s320/IMG_4072.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5292201255290817010" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;A god dressed up for pongal&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SXGs_2VjsdI/AAAAAAAAAqM/BwX5hIKub3E/s1600-h/IMG_4055.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SXGs_2VjsdI/AAAAAAAAAqM/BwX5hIKub3E/s320/IMG_4055.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5292201250054713810" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;A cow dressed up for pongal&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SXGs_65ydsI/AAAAAAAAAqE/LgEPlV818i8/s1600-h/IMG_4007.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SXGs_65ydsI/AAAAAAAAAqE/LgEPlV818i8/s320/IMG_4007.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5292201251280418498" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;More pongal puja, at the home of my friend's relatives.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8231504018799906331-597926530547952273?l=laura-bee.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/597926530547952273/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8231504018799906331&amp;postID=597926530547952273' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/597926530547952273'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/597926530547952273'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/2009/01/pongal-o-pongal.html' title='Pongal O Pongal'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SXGtAaD3yNI/AAAAAAAAAqc/y-4cZt5xiXc/s72-c/IMG_4079.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331.post-1472237125750183930</id><published>2009-01-05T17:46:00.003+05:30</published><updated>2009-01-05T19:57:43.526+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Happy New Year!</title><content type='html'>After visiting SEWA in Ahmedabad, I met up with a fellow volunteer for 3 days of sightseeing in Rajasthan.  We started in Udaipur, continued on to visit a mountain fort and temple between Udaipur and Johdpur, and then I traveled to Jaipur on my own for the last day.  Here are a couple photos:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SWIBGiuobRI/AAAAAAAAApk/rbDtOHeFY40/s1600-h/IMG_3416.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 225px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SWIBGiuobRI/AAAAAAAAApk/rbDtOHeFY40/s400/IMG_3416.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5287790124399619346" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;The Lake Palace in Udaipur, now a Taj hotel (we did not stay here).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SWIBG76odZI/AAAAAAAAAps/q3lc74C2qhw/s1600-h/IMG_3477.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 225px; height: 400px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SWIBG76odZI/AAAAAAAAAps/q3lc74C2qhw/s400/IMG_3477.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5287790131160839570" border="0" /&gt; &lt;/a&gt;Kumbalgarh Fort - the journey there was as marvelous as the fort itself!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SWIBHCYT22I/AAAAAAAAAp0/yK9eb47TiQ8/s1600-h/IMG_3650.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 225px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SWIBHCYT22I/AAAAAAAAAp0/yK9eb47TiQ8/s400/IMG_3650.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5287790132895931234" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Ranakpur Temple, a 15th century marble Jain temple.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SWIBHoL46MI/AAAAAAAAAp8/Vp-Mi6zqfws/s1600-h/IMG_3924.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SWIBHoL46MI/AAAAAAAAAp8/Vp-Mi6zqfws/s400/IMG_3924.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5287790143044380866" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;I know I know - I can't resist the food pictures!  This one is of my extremely large and tasty Rajasthani Thaali.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I returned from my trip from to the north in time to celebrate the new year in Chennai with an evening of Bharatanatyam dance (traditional Tamil Nadu style) and a visit to my favorite South Indian restaurant, the Murugan Idli House, where a delicious New Years dinner for two ended up costing us the equivalent of $4.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Many people are asking me about the cost of living so I thought I'd write about that topic a little.  The dollar goes a long way here.  In general I find that most things cost anywhere between one-tenth to one-fifth of the price of a comparable product in the States.  My observation is that agricultural products and goods and services that are labor-intensive cost more like one-tenth.  Some examples: a good lunch in a nice, air-conditioned restaurant costs about 60 Rupees or $1.25.  A small cup of chai or coffee is around 5 Rupees ($.10).  My morning trip to the fruit stand, yielding two pomegranates, two guavas, one papaya, and 10 small bananas, cost 80 Rupees ($1.75).  Rent for a "posh" two bedroom western-style flat is around 15,000 Rupees per month ($300).  The only things I've found with roughly equivalent cost are: 1)dried pasta 2)cocktails at a fancy hotel bar (both are purchased almost exclusively by foreigners).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A few words also about what I've learned people earn: a well-paid domestic worker working every day 4 hours per day may earn 1000 Rupees ($20) per month (note this is far less than one-tenth the US equivalent wage).  The college-educated coordinators at my NGO earn 10,000 Rupees ($200) per month.  It is not surprising that many Indians see Westerners and assume that their big backpacks are stuffed full of cash.  When discussing this assumption with some colleagues, they were genuinely shocked to learn that there are poor people and homeless people in America. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's hard not to want to help people here by giving handouts when American dollars go such a long way.  But is it appropriate to do so?   My observation is that giving handouts has a number of adverse effects:&lt;br /&gt;-perpetuates a mentality of dependence&lt;br /&gt;-handouts actually reinforce social inequality because they are distributed unequally&lt;br /&gt;-encourages parents to use their children for begging&lt;br /&gt;-handouts may allow the giver to feel good and move on, while doing little to truly alleviate suffering. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm interested to hear others' views since this is a topic I've been thinking about quite a lot.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8231504018799906331-1472237125750183930?l=laura-bee.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/1472237125750183930/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8231504018799906331&amp;postID=1472237125750183930' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/1472237125750183930'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/1472237125750183930'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/2009/01/happy-new-year.html' title='Happy New Year!'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SWIBGiuobRI/AAAAAAAAApk/rbDtOHeFY40/s72-c/IMG_3416.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331.post-7212810318852548501</id><published>2008-12-24T19:35:00.004+05:30</published><updated>2008-12-24T20:34:06.305+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Ahmedabad</title><content type='html'>This week I joined the staff of my &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;NGO&lt;/span&gt; on an exposure visit to &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;Ahmedabad&lt;/span&gt;. We're visiting an extremely innovative and impressive &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;NGO&lt;/span&gt; called &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;SEWA&lt;/span&gt; (pronounced &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;seva&lt;/span&gt;), Self Employed Women's Association. &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;SEWA&lt;/span&gt; goal is to organize female workers in the informal sector. I was amazed to learn that only &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;about&lt;/span&gt; 7% of the Indian labor force works in the formal sector, which includes government and private industry. The rest of Indians work in the informal sector which includes everything from domestic workers, to street-vendors, handcraft-makers, midwives, agricultural laborers, auto-rickshaw drivers and the like. &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7"&gt;SEWA's&lt;/span&gt; goal is to promote the self-sufficiency and self-reliance of female workers in this sector and much of their work uses a market-based entrepreneurial approach. For example, &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8"&gt;SEWA&lt;/span&gt; will organize agricultural laborers into a cooperative, which will buy the product from the farmers and sell directly to traders in the market thereby cutting out middlemen and supporting higher prices for the agricultural laborers themselves. &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9"&gt;SEWA&lt;/span&gt; also &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10"&gt;operates&lt;/span&gt; a highly successful bank and insurance company, both of which develop financial products to meet the needs of poor, working women.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I of course was very interested in the insurance products offered. (If you don't also love insurance, you can skip this paragraph) &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_11"&gt;SEWA&lt;/span&gt; Insurance has about 120 agents which they call &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_12"&gt;Aagewans&lt;/span&gt;, or barefoot agents (barefoot because the agents go directly to the customers' homes and communities, where shoes are removed, on average the agents visit the household 3 times to explain benefits before the policy is purchased). They offer several insurance schemes, all are packages covering many household needs. The products are available to &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_13"&gt;SEWA&lt;/span&gt; members (women only), who can choose to extend coverage to their husbands and children. The most popular (91%) is the lowest premium/lowest limit combination: 400 rupees premium per year ($8) covers the woman, husband and one child for the following limits (in dollars): life- 10,000 rupees ($200) for wife and husband; health - 2,000 rupees ($40) for each family member, House - 10,000 rupees ($200), Accidental death - 40,000 rupees ($1000) for wife and husband. &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_14"&gt;SEWA&lt;/span&gt; Insurance has over 103,000 women as policyholders. They have a staff of only 75 plus the 120 agents. &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_15"&gt;SEWA&lt;/span&gt; has found that this type of micro-insurance scheme provides essential economic support to poor, working families. In addition to helping those with claims, insurance plays a important role in the communities &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_16"&gt;SEWA&lt;/span&gt; serves because it encourages women to begin planning for the future, rather than simply living day to day.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In other news, tonight is Christmas Eve. So strange it is to be in a land where Christmas is a non-event. There are Christians here but Christianity itself is not highly visible, and certainly not visible in the way of an American Christmas. Actually, there are three Christians who traveled in our group of 17 to Gujarat. I was surprised that this trip was planned for Christmas week but no one else commented. I spoke with the 3 Christian ladies about being away from their families for Christmas and they were sad about it but each felt it was their duty to participate in the exposure visit. As someone accustomed to being a member of a minority religion as well, I empathized with them and helped them locate a church in &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_17"&gt;Ahmedabad&lt;/span&gt; where they could attend services for Christmas eve. The &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_18"&gt;gratefulness&lt;/span&gt; they expressed for this small gesture absolutely made my day.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8231504018799906331-7212810318852548501?l=laura-bee.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/7212810318852548501/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8231504018799906331&amp;postID=7212810318852548501' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/7212810318852548501'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/7212810318852548501'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/2008/12/ahmedabad.html' title='Ahmedabad'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331.post-6207117036061974716</id><published>2008-12-15T15:10:00.003+05:30</published><updated>2008-12-15T16:22:32.234+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Yoga</title><content type='html'>This morning I attended my first yoga class in India.  It took a while to find the right yoga center but now I think I have it.  All credit for finding the center goes to my clever and resourceful friend Debbie (and long-lost near relative), who pointed out that the ashram we plan to visit has a branch center practically in my backyard.  Actually, I'm finding that this is a trend - things I desire that seem very far away are actually very close at hand.  I was recently wishing there were a western-style coffee house in my neighborhood and &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;BAM&lt;/span&gt; - my neighbor points out just such a coffee house on an evening walk.  I needed to fill a prescription and asked a colleague where a chemist is located, expecting a trek across town.  Turns out there is one at the end of the block that I walk past all the time.  I think what's happening is that I expect a coffee shop or a drug store to look like a coffee shop or a drug store from home, but instead they look really different here.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Back to yoga. Class this morning was at 6AM.  It was still dark out as we made our way over to the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;Sivananda&lt;/span&gt; Yoga Vedanta Centre, located 1 block from the beach in an open-air gazebo-like structure.  In the front of the gazebo, there was a &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;puja&lt;/span&gt; area with pictures of various Hindu gods.  The pictures themselves were draped in flowers as is the style here and there were candles burning.  There were also pictures on the wall representing most of the world's religions.  Instead of sticky mats people rolled out straw mats for their practice, although I did see one woman with a sticky mat on top of her straw mat.  I think I might do that next time as I found the straw mat a bit &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;pokey&lt;/span&gt;.  Aside from a friendly German man who works for the center, we were the only western-looking people there.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Overall the class followed a pretty familiar routine.  Class started off with Ohms and then breathing &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;exercises&lt;/span&gt;.  We spent quite a lot of time focusing on breathing and I found the breathing exercises pretty challenging.  It was terrific to be able to hear the birds chirping and feel the sea air on my skin.  By the time I opened my eyes after the breathing routines, the sun had started to rise and the lush greenery surrounding the center was becoming visible.  Next we moved into sun salutations, followed by leg lifts, headstand, &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;shoulderstand&lt;/span&gt;, fish, &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;backbends&lt;/span&gt; balance postures and &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7"&gt;shavasana&lt;/span&gt;.  Class followed a pretty mellow pace and lasted about an hour and a half.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After yoga, we walked back along the beach, &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8"&gt;buying&lt;/span&gt; fresh young coconut along the way. The vendor used his machete to cut off the top of the coconut and handed it back to us with straws.   For breakfast we made a fruit salad from papaya, pineapple and &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9"&gt;bananas&lt;/span&gt; purchased the night before.  I felt ready to greet the day.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8231504018799906331-6207117036061974716?l=laura-bee.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/6207117036061974716/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8231504018799906331&amp;postID=6207117036061974716' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/6207117036061974716'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/6207117036061974716'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/2008/12/yoga.html' title='Yoga'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331.post-4936433010483159990</id><published>2008-12-11T21:07:00.006+05:30</published><updated>2008-12-11T21:40:20.812+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Happy Birthday Mom!</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SUE14MG2-nI/AAAAAAAAAkA/49iuRV-B1oI/s1600-h/IMG_3150.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SUE14MG2-nI/AAAAAAAAAkA/49iuRV-B1oI/s400/IMG_3150.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278559477693872754" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In addition to being my mom's birthday, today was also Tamil Nadu's Hanukkah, Karthigai Deepam. (It's not actually anything like Hanukkah, except being a festival of lights.) In the evening there were special celebrations in honor of the Hindu lord Shiva -- the temples were lit up with thousands of small oil lamps and people also lit lanterns in front of their homes. It was really beautiful. I celebrated with my colleague Chitra's family and went to temple with them. Afterwards her kids set off a ton of fireworks which of course made me extremely nervous. Luckily we all made it through.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SUE3yhrc9MI/AAAAAAAAAkI/7OAM-ANLI48/s1600-h/IMG_3148.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SUE3yhrc9MI/AAAAAAAAAkI/7OAM-ANLI48/s400/IMG_3148.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5278561579428541634" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8231504018799906331-4936433010483159990?l=laura-bee.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/4936433010483159990/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8231504018799906331&amp;postID=4936433010483159990' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/4936433010483159990'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/4936433010483159990'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/2008/12/festival-of-lights.html' title='Happy Birthday Mom!'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SUE14MG2-nI/AAAAAAAAAkA/49iuRV-B1oI/s72-c/IMG_3150.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331.post-3922974299968196679</id><published>2008-12-05T11:56:00.003+05:30</published><updated>2008-12-05T17:25:40.900+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Routine</title><content type='html'>It's been extra-ordinary four weeks since I arrived in India.  Last week Chennai experienced massive flooding due to monsoon.   As a result I was house-bound with intermittent power supply but plenty of good company.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now I am beginning to settle into a bit of a routine.  I know where to buy corn flakes, soy milk and dried pasta, I have a favorite restaurant ("hotel"), and I know how to direct autos so they take me home.    These things may sound trivial but they took a long time to figure out!  There have been lots of pleasant discoveries.  There is a terrific beach for morning walks less than a kilometer from where I am staying - a peaceful pedestrian street along the sea that fills up with walkers (human and bovine) around 7AM.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/STjQDJTYFVI/AAAAAAAAAhY/dPOzEK1rqwY/s1600-h/IMG_3083.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/STjQDJTYFVI/AAAAAAAAAhY/dPOzEK1rqwY/s320/IMG_3083.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5276195715919910226" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Everywhere in the city extremely comfortable lightweight cotton clothing can be found at very low prices.  There's an ironing wallah (man ironing behind a stand on the street) a few doors down from my office who irons my clothes for 3 rupees (6 cents) per garment.  There is tea each afternoon that is milky and sweet and sometimes arrives with a piping hot samosa.  My office is very near one of India's preeminent dance schools, just gearing up for the winter concert series.  It is a good life!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8231504018799906331-3922974299968196679?l=laura-bee.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/3922974299968196679/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8231504018799906331&amp;postID=3922974299968196679' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/3922974299968196679'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/3922974299968196679'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/2008/12/routine.html' title='Routine'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/STjQDJTYFVI/AAAAAAAAAhY/dPOzEK1rqwY/s72-c/IMG_3083.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331.post-6322421795905839249</id><published>2008-11-22T11:30:00.003+05:30</published><updated>2008-11-22T11:41:57.153+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Ashtalakshmi Temple</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SSeiCDwHo3I/AAAAAAAAAfM/5TRNZ0HR848/s1600-h/IMG_2993.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SSeiCDwHo3I/AAAAAAAAAfM/5TRNZ0HR848/s400/IMG_2993.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5271360045111026546" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SSeiCKZ9SUI/AAAAAAAAAfU/CU3d3lMY1H4/s1600-h/IMG_2982.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SSeiCKZ9SUI/AAAAAAAAAfU/CU3d3lMY1H4/s400/IMG_2982.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5271360046897121602" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SSeiB5UnxiI/AAAAAAAAAfE/GOUd6j9P8IA/s1600-h/IMG_2985.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SSeiB5UnxiI/AAAAAAAAAfE/GOUd6j9P8IA/s400/IMG_2985.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5271360042311337506" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Morning temple visit in the rain.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8231504018799906331-6322421795905839249?l=laura-bee.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/6322421795905839249/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8231504018799906331&amp;postID=6322421795905839249' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/6322421795905839249'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/6322421795905839249'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/2008/11/ashtalakshmi-temple.html' title='Ashtalakshmi Temple'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SSeiCDwHo3I/AAAAAAAAAfM/5TRNZ0HR848/s72-c/IMG_2993.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331.post-1967986009949856009</id><published>2008-11-21T18:19:00.005+05:30</published><updated>2008-11-21T20:03:34.694+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Adjustments</title><content type='html'>Today was a interesting day.  It had it's nice shiny moments but overall, challenging.  Day started off with a trip to &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;Airtel&lt;/span&gt;, my mobile service provider (you may guess where this is going...).  &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;Airtel&lt;/span&gt; has been sending me automated voice and text messages saying that they need me to submit my identification documents or they will disconnect my service.  Already I submitted these documents when I purchased the SIM card but apparently there is some issue.  I try calling customer care, but each time I try "all lines are currently busy".  So I go into the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;Airtel&lt;/span&gt; office in &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;Besant&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;Nagar&lt;/span&gt; with copies of my passport, visa and passport photo duplicates.  I take a number to talk with someone and wait about an hour before my number comes up.  Finally the number is called.  I'm thinking this is going to be simple.  Problem is, I purchased the SIM card at a different &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;Airtel&lt;/span&gt; office and apparently the systems don't talk (in India? IT prowess!).  The customer service rep who is helping me is clearly stressed out.  But even thought I have a Tamil speaker with me, she prefers not to talk to either of us.  She is looking blankly at the computer and fidgeting with a rubber band, the pen, her hands, picking at an adhesive.  We sit there like this for another hour before she finally manages to get &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;ahold&lt;/span&gt; of the other store on the phone.  We learn that the documents are there but have not submitted them yet. The store confirms they will submit the documents today.  Meanwhile, I've already received another threatening text message from &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7"&gt;Airtel&lt;/span&gt; this afternoon.  I think there's about a 90 percent chance my phone will be disconnected.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8"&gt;Airtel&lt;/span&gt; experience I return to the office, where a staff meeting is taking place.  The meeting is in Tamil so I can't really participate.  I don't have any work that I can do independently at the moment, and I do not have nearly enough work to in general.  I'm racking my brain to figure out something productive to do.  Not a whole lot is coming to mind.  I read up on another Indian &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9"&gt;NGO&lt;/span&gt; that we're going to visit in December, read the news and do some chatting.  I am very disturbed that I don't have enough to show for my time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the later afternoon I attend a ribbon cutting ceremony for a new office of my &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10"&gt;NGO&lt;/span&gt;.  We travel there on a divided highway and I spot a cow sitting in the median looking pretty blissful among the traffic chaos.    The ribbon cutting was quite interesting and I really enjoyed meeting the community members in this area, which is a fishing village directly on the shore.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On the drive back from the ribbon cutting, we run over a dog.  This was terrible.  I still feel sick from it.  I've never hit an animal in a car and I had a very strong emotional reaction.  The whole thing was easily preventable - two dogs walking across the street in plain sight.  The driver just did not slow down.  Nobody else in our packed let on that they were particularly bothered by this.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I came home feeling dirty from the beach and the hot day, looking forward to an evening shower.  Turned the faucet - no water.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not that I'm complaining (even though it may sound like it).   I'm happy to be here.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8231504018799906331-1967986009949856009?l=laura-bee.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/1967986009949856009/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8231504018799906331&amp;postID=1967986009949856009' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/1967986009949856009'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/1967986009949856009'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/2008/11/adjustments.html' title='Adjustments'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331.post-3056912912555953384</id><published>2008-11-18T21:06:00.004+05:30</published><updated>2008-11-18T21:27:20.788+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Soap Making</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SSLhpiFE2KI/AAAAAAAAAVw/kDfTHtYikKw/s1600-h/IMG_2951.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SSLhpiFE2KI/AAAAAAAAAVw/kDfTHtYikKw/s400/IMG_2951.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5270022617615882402" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;I snapped this shot while observing a soap making workshop.  I love all the color the women wear and all the lush greenery in Chennai.  Everyone is generally pretty curious about me - my skin, where I come from, why I'm here, if I have any kids - and overwhelmingly hospitable.  If I drink any more coffee or chai I might just float away.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8231504018799906331-3056912912555953384?l=laura-bee.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/3056912912555953384/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8231504018799906331&amp;postID=3056912912555953384' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/3056912912555953384'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/3056912912555953384'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/2008/11/soap-making.html' title='Soap Making'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SSLhpiFE2KI/AAAAAAAAAVw/kDfTHtYikKw/s72-c/IMG_2951.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331.post-8225803611803726238</id><published>2008-11-17T07:04:00.003+05:30</published><updated>2008-11-26T09:49:32.232+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Address</title><content type='html'>I have an address! If you would like it please let me know.  Deleted from the blog for security.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8231504018799906331-8225803611803726238?l=laura-bee.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/8225803611803726238/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8231504018799906331&amp;postID=8225803611803726238' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/8225803611803726238'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/8225803611803726238'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/2008/11/address.html' title='Address'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331.post-1477124874404781847</id><published>2008-11-16T15:54:00.004+05:30</published><updated>2008-11-16T18:27:23.259+05:30</updated><title type='text'>I have a phone!</title><content type='html'>Today I got a new mobile.  If you want to contact me from the States, dial 011-91-9940213224.  I've noticed that Indians always answer their phone no matter what is going on around them - a meeting, a presentation (where they are the presenter), a one-on-one conversation.  I don't think this is my style - so if I don't answer, please try me again.  I don't have voicemail on this line.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am finally aware enough of my surroundings to be able to spot my location on a map:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;iframe marginheight="0" marginwidth="0" src="http://maps.google.co.in/maps?f=q&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;geocode=&amp;amp;q=jayaram+st&amp;amp;sll=12.978088,80.26916&amp;amp;sspn=0.021997,0.032873&amp;amp;ie=UTF8&amp;amp;ll=12.994773,80.272379&amp;amp;spn=0.043992,0.065746&amp;amp;z=14&amp;amp;output=embed&amp;amp;s=AARTsJqnAGQFPOn9AXfmD6lv2_d0-cqQBA" frameborder="0" height="350" scrolling="no" width="425"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;small&gt;&lt;a href="http://maps.google.co.in/maps?f=q&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;geocode=&amp;amp;q=jayaram+st&amp;amp;sll=12.978088,80.26916&amp;amp;sspn=0.021997,0.032873&amp;amp;ie=UTF8&amp;amp;ll=12.994773,80.272379&amp;amp;spn=0.043992,0.065746&amp;amp;z=14&amp;amp;source=embed" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 255); text-align: left;"&gt;View Larger Map&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/small&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I stumbled upon this temple on an evening walk on the beach:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SSAYMgmri8I/AAAAAAAAAVg/n6e4CiDYKRQ/s1600-h/IMG_2913.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SSAYMgmri8I/AAAAAAAAAVg/n6e4CiDYKRQ/s200/IMG_2913.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5269238167213149122" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SSAYM_JBVrI/AAAAAAAAAVo/qR62RWvPyj0/s1600-h/IMG_2915.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SSAYM_JBVrI/AAAAAAAAAVo/qR62RWvPyj0/s200/IMG_2915.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5269238175410247346" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8231504018799906331-1477124874404781847?l=laura-bee.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/1477124874404781847/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8231504018799906331&amp;postID=1477124874404781847' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/1477124874404781847'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/1477124874404781847'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/2008/11/i-have-phone.html' title='I have a phone!'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SSAYMgmri8I/AAAAAAAAAVg/n6e4CiDYKRQ/s72-c/IMG_2913.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331.post-3909975307078321920</id><published>2008-11-15T09:08:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2008-11-15T21:28:42.011+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Chennai Day 1</title><content type='html'>After a productive and enjoyable week in Delhi (during which I saw just a little bit of Delhi outside of the hotel where orientation was conducted), yesterday I arrived in Chennai.  I was pretty exhausted so luckily the travel was easy. Kingfisher airlines is very comfortable and the food is really excellent.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm staying in a private room attached to my office for now.  It is comfortable.  My only complaints are that there is only one outlet in the room and there is no hot water.  Not too bad!  This morning I went for a walk to start to get to know my new surroundings.  I started by heading up to the roof of the building where I'm staying.  I was surprised to see the ocean so close by!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SR5Lp3B2OPI/AAAAAAAAAU4/bRqJe7G_W04/s1600-h/IMG_2876.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SR5Lp3B2OPI/AAAAAAAAAU4/bRqJe7G_W04/s200/IMG_2876.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5268731796588476658" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Less pleasant was this view.  Trash is a serious issue.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SR7VqjYQckI/AAAAAAAAAVA/TUxYWjg6-ss/s1600-h/IMG_2880.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SR7VqjYQckI/AAAAAAAAAVA/TUxYWjg6-ss/s200/IMG_2880.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5268883541098263106" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After a morning walk I had enjoyed the staple southern Indian breakfast: &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;idli&lt;/span&gt; (like rice cake), &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;sambar&lt;/span&gt; (&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;dal&lt;/span&gt;), &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;vada&lt;/span&gt; (like fried lentil patty) and two chutneys (coconut and onion).  It is a delicious morning meal and I don't imagine I will tire of it any time soon.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Today was my first day on the job.  Yes, the work week is six days!  So much for scaling back...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My organization, which I've been asked not to name directly, works with women who are "the poorest of the poor" in Chennai and the surrounding villages.  The specific groups they target are domestic workers, adolescent girls and single women.  Single women largely consists of women who are widows, these women may face social stigma and economic deprivation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My "job" for the first few weeks is to immerse myself in the activities of the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;NGO&lt;/span&gt; and learn as much as possible about what is going on in the community and in the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;NGO's&lt;/span&gt; programming.  Beyond learning about these issues, we've identified three goals for my time: I am going to help create databases of program participants for program design and evaluation purposes, I will work on revising the existing promotional materials, and lastly I will work with the management and staff of the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;NGO&lt;/span&gt; to help them adopt some western-style SMART goals (specific, measurable, attainable, realistic and timely).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After a morning meeting in the office and a peek into the dance class for adolescent girls going on downstairs, I headed out to the field with &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7"&gt;Chitra&lt;/span&gt;, one of the program coordinators.  First stop was a field office where some girls from nearby slum areas were being trained in computer skills and sewing skills.  Next up, &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8"&gt;Chitra&lt;/span&gt; and I visited two slum neighborhoods. &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9"&gt;Chitra&lt;/span&gt; spoke with groups of girls about sexual abuse prevention and gender issues.  Here are a couple of snaps from the visit:&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SR7t8fj8OcI/AAAAAAAAAVY/UTL-ok91B74/s1600-h/IMG_2902.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SR7t8fj8OcI/AAAAAAAAAVY/UTL-ok91B74/s200/IMG_2902.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5268910237590239682" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SR7t8OEw30I/AAAAAAAAAVQ/qN2mD8qQvxM/s1600-h/IMG_2901.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SR7t8OEw30I/AAAAAAAAAVQ/qN2mD8qQvxM/s200/IMG_2901.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5268910232896069442" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SR7t7cPnBaI/AAAAAAAAAVI/Ad73pCizsvk/s1600-h/IMG_2895.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 150px; height: 200px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SR7t7cPnBaI/AAAAAAAAAVI/Ad73pCizsvk/s200/IMG_2895.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5268910219519788450" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;According to the census in 2001, the male female ratio in India is 927 women per 1000 women (the world average is 1045 women per 1000 men).   There are many factors contributing to these "missing girls" and one of them is the preference of parents towards boys, which may be demonstrated by giving boys more or higher quality food and better medical care.  One of the things &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10"&gt;Chitra&lt;/span&gt; was talking about with these adolescent girls, many of whom will be mothers in a few years, is that they should treat their boy children and girl children equally.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8231504018799906331-3909975307078321920?l=laura-bee.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/3909975307078321920/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8231504018799906331&amp;postID=3909975307078321920' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/3909975307078321920'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/3909975307078321920'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/2008/11/chennai-day-1.html' title='Chennai Day 1'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SR5Lp3B2OPI/AAAAAAAAAU4/bRqJe7G_W04/s72-c/IMG_2876.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331.post-3585199895461110941</id><published>2008-11-11T03:42:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2008-11-11T04:34:49.441+05:30</updated><title type='text'>48 Hours in New Delhi</title><content type='html'>It's about 4 in the morning, approaching the time I arrived in New Delhi 2 days ago.  Last night I slept solid through the night, tonight not so lucky.  It's been a colorful and delicious 2 days.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My first Delhi experience was of the traffic traveling from the airport to the hotel at 6AM.  I'm not sure of the exact distance but I can tell you we traveled very slowly.  But to one accustomed to the orderly flow of western traffic, it was an eventful ride.  The streets in Delhi are painted with lane lines but these are ignored.  This seems to be true of both small streets and highways.  You may see three vehicles traveling side by side in the two lanes.  We made a right hand turn from the left lane.  The horn is used constantly, kind of as a greeting.  There seem to be many large trucks with no windows or side view mirrors, but with pretty cursive signs painted in pastel colors "Please Honk".  Drivers of smaller cars may keep their side view mirrors folded into the car to make the vehicle more narrow.  There is a wide variety of vehicles on the road.  Cars, trucks, motorcyles and mopeds, auto-rickshaws, bicycle-rickshaws, bicycles, cows, horses, horse and buggy.  And pedestrians - there are lots and lots of pedestrians.  Seeing so many people on the street, it feels to me like New Years, or a big party.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;Most of my time has been spent in the hotel, where I am staying and attending an orientation.  The hotel is very comfortable and restaurant excellent.  Aside from hotel time, I've had two enjoyable excursions.  Sunday night I had a wonderful meal at the home of Sunita, AJWS's in-country representative.   Sunita's hospitality was incredible and the food highly delicious.  She thoughtfully prepared foods from many different regions in India so we could sample the various flavors and specialties (she prepared more than two dozen dishes!!). &lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SRi84CGu0wI/AAAAAAAAAUw/GnETJ6aK2hk/s1600-h/IMG_2843.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 150px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SRi84CGu0wI/AAAAAAAAAUw/GnETJ6aK2hk/s200/IMG_2843.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5267167435033596674" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;The second excursion was last night, we walked from the hotel through a pedestrian market to a store called Fabindia, which has been explained to me as the Gap of India.  Wonderful bright and colorful fabrics and clothing, bed linen and towels.  Sunita says Indians love food and clothes - I'm starting to see why.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8231504018799906331-3585199895461110941?l=laura-bee.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/3585199895461110941/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8231504018799906331&amp;postID=3585199895461110941' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/3585199895461110941'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/3585199895461110941'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/2008/11/48-hours-in-new-delhi.html' title='48 Hours in New Delhi'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SRi84CGu0wI/AAAAAAAAAUw/GnETJ6aK2hk/s72-c/IMG_2843.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331.post-4484303943851702924</id><published>2008-11-09T08:30:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2008-11-09T08:35:06.316+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Arrival in New Delhi</title><content type='html'>After about 24 hours of transit I arrived at my hotel in New Delhi about an hour ago!  I am happy to be here, kicking off my adventure with a chapati, a banana and a cup of nescafe.  And here ends my first very short post - a new friend just arrived so I will wrap up.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8231504018799906331-4484303943851702924?l=laura-bee.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/4484303943851702924/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8231504018799906331&amp;postID=4484303943851702924' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/4484303943851702924'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/4484303943851702924'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/2008/11/arrival-in-new-delhi.html' title='Arrival in New Delhi'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331.post-6117560158679836126</id><published>2008-11-01T10:31:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2008-11-01T10:44:03.927+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Happy Halloween!</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SQvkuVEML-I/AAAAAAAAAOY/sc504ipESLc/s1600-h/IMG_2700.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 150px; height: 200px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SQvkuVEML-I/AAAAAAAAAOY/sc504ipESLc/s200/IMG_2700.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5263552074092392418" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;My friend Andrea surprised me today with the gift of a beautiful blue embroidered salwah kameez.  I'm incredibly touched by this thoughtful gift and so excited to wear my beautiful new outfit in India!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8231504018799906331-6117560158679836126?l=laura-bee.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/6117560158679836126/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8231504018799906331&amp;postID=6117560158679836126' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/6117560158679836126'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/6117560158679836126'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/2008/10/happy-halloween.html' title='Happy Halloween!'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SQvkuVEML-I/AAAAAAAAAOY/sc504ipESLc/s72-c/IMG_2700.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331.post-5334181988925595057</id><published>2008-10-30T12:08:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2008-11-01T10:45:26.935+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Seattle Fall</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SQlYzfAU61I/AAAAAAAAAOA/QHgMgVk98eM/s1600-h/IMG_2597.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 150px; height: 200px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SQlYzfAU61I/AAAAAAAAAOA/QHgMgVk98eM/s200/IMG_2597.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5262835281078578002" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SQlYT1u0OJI/AAAAAAAAAN4/XJExQluC23I/s1600-h/IMG_2585.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 150px; height: 200px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SQlYT1u0OJI/AAAAAAAAAN4/XJExQluC23I/s200/IMG_2585.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5262834737423333522" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This fall has been incredible, the best since I moved to the Pacific NW in August 2001.  These are some pictures from last Sunday - a wonderful afternoon walking around the arboretum with Jess and Rachel.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8231504018799906331-5334181988925595057?l=laura-bee.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/5334181988925595057/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8231504018799906331&amp;postID=5334181988925595057' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/5334181988925595057'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/5334181988925595057'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/2008/10/9-more-days-in-seattle.html' title='Seattle Fall'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_qSqNHNlFmLA/SQlYzfAU61I/AAAAAAAAAOA/QHgMgVk98eM/s72-c/IMG_2597.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8231504018799906331.post-9115291206328743924</id><published>2008-10-03T08:37:00.000+05:30</published><updated>2008-10-03T09:36:40.659+05:30</updated><title type='text'>Welcome to my blog!</title><content type='html'>Hello friends! Welcome to my blog.  Thanks for visiting!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm starting this online journal to stay in touch as I prepare to set off for several months of travel, volunteering and adventure.  November 7 (36 days from today!) I leave my lovely home, friends, and job in Seattle for Chennai, a city of 7.5 million on the southeast coast of India.  I'll be working for about 3 months on a pro-bono consulting project for an NGO that focuses on women's advocacy and education.   More on my work soon.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm in an overwhelmed and task oriented frame of mind tonight so I think I'll write a little about travel prep.  It is crazy!  I wish I had MS Project on my home computer to help me out.  Instead I've got lists.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Things I have done already (yay!):&lt;br /&gt;Medical consult/ Started vaccinations&lt;br /&gt;Filling prescriptions&lt;br /&gt;Reading - to help with the mental prep for the transition. &lt;br /&gt;Started blog&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Things I have yet to do (oy!):&lt;br /&gt;More vaccinations&lt;br /&gt;India visa&lt;br /&gt;Change banks - mine failed last week.  I am not worried about money disappearing, I just don't want to risk any interruption in access to cash while I'm traveling. &lt;br /&gt;Iodine tablets/Deet/ Sunscreen/ First aid kit/ vitamins / other supplies&lt;br /&gt;Mail - ask a kind stable friend to monitor while abroad&lt;br /&gt;Travel health insurance&lt;br /&gt;Print extra passport photos&lt;br /&gt;Cancel periodicals, netflix&lt;br /&gt;Pack up my apartment.......&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That's all for tonight - Off to attempt progress.. Goodnight!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8231504018799906331-9115291206328743924?l=laura-bee.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/feeds/9115291206328743924/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=8231504018799906331&amp;postID=9115291206328743924' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/9115291206328743924'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8231504018799906331/posts/default/9115291206328743924'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://laura-bee.blogspot.com/2008/10/welcome-to-my-blog.html' title='Welcome to my blog!'/><author><name>LauraBee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05429569575356629904</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry></feed>
